Ask me anything. I dare you.

Alright, so tell me this, WHY is Jac Vanek so epic? Also, why does Joe's hair look so much better like it is now? And whyyyy does Justin Bieber fail so much at life? I want threee separate answers please.
All right. Jac Vanek is so epic because that's just how she is- epic. She beats everyone at life. Joe's hair is so much better now because he knows how to rock it. Although I was a fan of the messy/natural look. And Justin Bieber fails at life because he ain't got a shawty, he's too white for his own good, he hasn't hit puberty yet, he thinks Rihanna kissed him because he's cute and talented (she really felt pity for him), and let's face it- he just fails. Mkay, Justin?

what ipod do you have, and what are your 10 favorite songs on it? (:
Oh dear. I have a black iPod Classic (160 GB). Um...10 songs? All Fall Down by One Republic, Bless The Broken Road by Rascal Flatts, Contagious by Boys Like Girls, Cute by Stephen Jerzak, From The Second I Wake Up by Valencia, Here Comes Trouble by Honor Society, I Only See You by Benton Paul, The Other Side Of The Door by Taylor Swift, Runaway by Cartel, and She's Got A Boyfriend Now by Boys Like Girls. There are SO many more, trust me. :)

I love you :)
Thank you, kind stranger...?

Most likely. But it's alright joe, we all know you're a little slow. Just keep livin' the dream baby, livin' the dream.
I'M LIVIN' THE DREAM! ...I wish. :/

Jac's gotta defend Joe! The J's come together in the time of need!
OMG. Jac. Joe. Justin. Am I seriously the only one who realized this just now?! Haha.

And I defended you a bit on here but didn't leave my info so people don't come attack me next HAHA. Love you!
LOL I thought one of those might have been you. ;) Love you too, Jac!

I was creeping (what's new?) and I WANT TO GO TO CHARTRES TOO. Let's make it a trip, girl!
YES! I am so in. That'd be lovely.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RhjHAPw1q-M Skip to 4 minutes in to find out.
HAHA, oh wow. At least I was smart and didn't recommend it! :)

do you think it's a good idea to microwave a car airbag?
I wouldn't recommend it. When the air bag deploys, isn't there all that white powder stuff? You'd have to clean out your microwave, then.

Sorry, for all the annoyance that caused ): I know the post was about me, and it's not a big deal. I did apologize. so i'm sorry loveeee.
Hun, it's okay. Honestly, I don't really mind it. I voiced my opinions, and you and others voices yours too. We all have different ways of expressing ourselves. I forgive you.

Wow, someone's cool for bitching at you on formspring... same reason why I deleted mine.
Ha, I know. The funny part is that it's all anonymous. ;) But I understand your reasonsings.

hmmm, i see that some person is being quite rude to you... well i love you bunches and they should stop asking you questions if they dont like your answers... well anyway, i wanted to know what you did with your lovely day of being snowed in? :) <3
Thank you. Today I worked on my physics homework, watched some TV, and started cleaning my room/organizing it.

Two for one(!): Don't you think that if people are going to be rude online, they should at least do it properly? (Correct spelling/grammar, etc.) & Is there a specific location in France that you would like to visit?
HAHA, only you would point out grammar in this little matter. ;) And yes, actually. Of course I want to visit Paris, but I'd also love to visit Nice, Versailles, and Chartres.

I'm not here to attack you like these morons here have been. I wanted to tell you that there is nothing wrong with "dreaming of a better life" (that was to that person below me) and if they don't like what you have to say, too bad, it's just your opinion.
Thanks. I didn't think much was wrong with that, etiher.

Ok not to jump in on this, but what I think she meant was she doesn't like when people make a big fuss out of little things. When people over react. I don't know the situation, I'm just saying thats what she meant.
Mm, yeah, that was part of it. 'Cause in a few years we'll either completely forget the "catastrophe," or we'll have something better to think about.

OH MY GOD PEOPLE, LEAVE HER ALONE. SHE CAN SAY WHATEVER SHE WANTS. LOVE YOU MANDY (:
Thanks. :)

so on your formspring about me you put "and dreaming of a better life." but you get pissed when people bitch about their life and when something goes wrong? wow.
...Yes, that is what it says. I don't understand your point, though.

what is so wrong with saying FUCK?!
Absolutely nothing. I'll admit that I slip up and say it when I'm pissed beyone belief- which really, has only been when my dad is unreasonable. I just can't stand when someone says it five times in one sentence, or feels the need to somehow include it in whatever they're talking about. That's one of my pet peeves; you have your own, too.

"People need to gain respect. They need to appreciate life more." really?!? i think you should stfu. you dont know what people go threw everyday. you don't know shit to be honest.
Well, in a way, neither do you. Everyone has secrets and everyone acts. No one knows what every person goes through. I never said anywhere that I'm perfect. I'm included in the "people" category too. I'm working on appreciating my life and others' lives myself.

we all know who your post was about.. okay. she doesn't go to 2 shows a month.. maybe one every two. and half the time, her mom ends up saying she can't go at the last second. almost every time. if you're going to post something.. say it's about them.
It wasn't just about Lexi. It's about several people, some of whom I know and others I don't. The reason I wrote it was because she just brought back my frustration.

For some people, shows are what they have to look forward to. I admit some people's lives are far worse than my own, but I have had things that have happened to me that have sucked. For me personally, going to a show is what makes me happy. When a show gets cancelled, I get upset. It's what I live for, when I'm at a show, I can actually be myself and I don't care what people think. It's my escape.
And there's nothing wrong with that, trust me, I understand. I have my own escapes, too. And I know what it's like to be looking forward to something and getting so excited for it, and having it taken away. It's happened to me the day of, a week before, a month before- so many times. My perspective is the fact that some people go to at least two concerts a month. And then when they find out they can't go to one concert, they make it sound like it's the end of the world. It's not- they have so many memories to look back upon, and they have other ways of making themselves happy. That's what irks me most.

before you judge anyone else and what they're going through, please walk a mile in their shoes. You could never deal with what half the people deal with. stop posting immature stuff on tumblr, it's annoying &if you can't deal wit the word FUCK, go away.
Maybe I could, and maybe I couldn't. The whole idea of Tumblr is to write down MY thoughts. And those were MY thoughts. I don't care if you disagree with me, that's fine. If you think it's annoying, don't read it.

Would you rather get up early or sleep late?
Get up early. Then I feel like I didn't waste the day. :)

What household chore do hate to do the most?
Cleaning my room, for sure. It takes at least a week to really clean it. And once I start a section, I get very distracted, so one small corner of my room takes about one-two hours to finish.

If you could go only to one restaurant for the next five years, which would it be?
I probably wouldn't want to eat at one place every day for five years, but I really like T.G.I.Friday's and Texas Roadhouse.

What song is running through your head RIGHT now?
There are two, actually. "What Is This Feeling" from Wicked, and "What Can I Say" by Carrie Underwood and Sons of Sylvia. <33

Who was the best teacher you've ever had?
My favorite teachers were Miss Dortmund (now Mrs. Mathis), Mrs. Turner, and Mr. Lupold. They had great personalities and always made lessons fun. Plus, the fact that at least two of them still keep in touch and ask about me today makes me feel good. :)

What's your favorite food?
Chicken (grilled, cripsy...don't really care) and pasta. :)

If you could meet any person, alive or dead, who would it be?
I took some time to answer this one, because no matter who I say, I'll offend someone. I'm not sure if this is my top choice, but one person I really would love to meet is Emma Watson. She has a great personality, and I love the fact that despite her fame and "highness-ness", she decided to go to a university in the states. Anyone else would homeschool, but she wanted to continue her education, and didn't mind going to a public place. That's amazing, in my eyes. Plus, she may be able to offer me my own personal tour around London/England. :D

the answer to the lightbulb question: turn on the 1st switch, wait 30 min. turn it off. turn on the 2nd switch n leave it on n look at the bulb. if its on then its the 2nd switch, off but the bulb is hot its the first, n off but the bulb is cold its 3rd.
Oo, smart move. I think I've heard this one, or one similar, before. I wish I was that smart. :P

NJ&TA TOMORROW :D You getting it? ;)
I really really hope so! I'm not going to have the opportunity to run out on my own to get it, so maybe if my mommy is feeling really nice she'll go to Target before/after the college-night meeting? :D

There is a lightbulb in a room. Youre not aloud in the room. There are 3 light switches in another room which youre in. By flipping the switches as many times as u want but only looking at the bulb ONCE how can u figure out which switch controls the bulb?
Constantly look at the bulb. :) What's your answer?

One goal in life is....
I just thought of this tonight while watching The Buried Life. A goal of mine is to make someone's life better with just being me. A dream of mine to go on a bucket list of things to do before I die is to perform on stage in front of a crowd (preferably a crowd who likes me).

If you were given $1,000,000 right now, what would you do with it?
I'd save a portion of it for college/tuition/vacation, that kind of stuff. I'd spend quite a bit on clothes/accessories (I'm a girl, I can only resist so much). I'd donate a lot to different charities. And then, I'd take the leftover money and invest it into a music career, and see how far I could get with it.

how much wood could a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood?
Someone asked this a long time ago. :P I believe it's however much he wants to chuck.

Have you noticed how creepy the drummer for Nick Jonas' new band is?
HAHAHA. Watchu talkin' 'bout?! He ain't creepy, he be fly! :) I love his apron (which I found out isn't an apron at all, but a pair of overalls- HOW AWESOME!). :)

If you could master one skill what would it be?
To be even more musically inclined. Meaning having a better voice, and actually knowing how to play the guitar. Yes, please!

Who's the sexiest woman alive?
Now that's just awkward.

Who's the sexiest man alive?
Oh dear, there are quite a few men. ;) Apparently it's Johnny Depp- I think Joe Jonas and Gerard Butler.

What was the last book you read?
I just finished "Three Little Words: A Memoir" by Ashley Rhodes-Courter, and now I'm reading "The Wedding" by Nicholas Sparks. :)

"I'm in a somewhat confused state right now, so..." *HUG* Hope everything works out for you dear
:) Thanks.

You said that your happiness only "lasts two days" and u don't want someone to have to deal with that, don't you think that someone who wanted to be in a relationship with you wouldn't care?
Possibly. But I know I'd still feel guilty, as if I was putting a burden on their shoulders that wasn't needed there. Like I said, I'm in a somewhat confused state right now, so...

if you had a one-way plane ticket to anywhere in the world where would you go and why?
Europe. Preferably London or Paris. I've already said I really want to visit and tour Europe, and those are my favorite cities/regions.

not a question but responding to your answer. I had your fav food basically tonite, and the fav dessert deff should be brownies! just a btw ha
Yumm. And brownies are good, too!

what do you do when you feel down/in the blues? :)
Listen to music, sometimes I'll write, or I'll just look outside and daydream. :) And I'll sometimes read.

whats your fav food? and dessert?
Food is chicken. Grilled, crispy...I love it. I'm a big fan of grilled chicken with rice, though. And dessert would be strawberry cheesecake and chocolate chip cookies. :)

Do you have any regrets?
Well, I just answered this question, so...

Why is it your more open on here then you are in person
Because I'm more bored now than when people are talking to me in person, so I'm obviously going to give an answer because I take more time to think it through. If you want, ask me your own questions in person. :)

Have you ever regretted doing something,,if so what-if you want to share.
Hm. I've made plenty of mistakes, for sure. To me, a regret is something you would go back in time and risk everything for just to change it. I don't think there's anything (at least nothing comes to mind) that I would want to change. I don't believe everything happens for a reason, but I believe that the things that have happened, happened for a reason.

whos your favorite musician?
Michael Bublé, OneRepublic, John Mayer, Jonas Brothers, Nick Jonas & The Administration, and Sanctus Real.

What's the best gift you've ever given?
Love and friendship. That's what I'd want most, at least.

FIRST concert you ever went to & how old were you?
Oh dear. My FIRST concert was with my mom, and we went to see Alabama at the York Fair. I really don't know when that was, but my second concert was when I went to see Aaron Carter at the fair for my 9th birthday. And let me tell you- it was awesome. :D

is there anyone on sugarloot whom you wish you were friends with but dont know what to say to them to keep a conversation going? uhhh
Mm, no, not really. I can be awkward, but my awkwardness always leaves me with something to say. :)

whats your favorite word that starts with the letter....C...? (:
CAROLINE! :) And...cardinal. I love cardinals.

So why is a beautiful and intelligent girl such as yourself single? Just haven't found the right guy or something else?
You could say that. Or the fact that I confuse myself with what I want and don't want, and that my happiness lasts about two days. I don't want someone close to me to have to go through that.

That was close. It wasn't Moses at all! It was Noah who carried the animals on the Arc. You get 50% on that for correct answer but wrong reason.
BAHAHA. Wow. You're good.

do you like your hair color? what do you think the prettiest hair color is?
No, I don't like mine. For about three years now I've wanted to dye mine a darker brown with red hints in it. That's what my "favorite" is, but I don't necessarily think it's the prettiest.

How about this one. Within 50, how many animals did Moses carry on the Arc?
He didn't carry any- they walked themselves onto the Ark.

If a barber "MUST" shave those people who do not shave themselves, but will NEVER shave those who do shave themselves, does the barber shave himself? Of course not. He has his own barber. (LOL I worded it wrong the first time)
Haha, I still don't think that changed much. But I would say it depends how he's feeling that day. If he's lazy, he'll have someone else shave him.

Well, if the barber does NOT shave himself, then he MUST shave himself. I said that he ALWAYS shaves those who do not shave themselves, so he must shave himself. Would you like to change your answer?
No, because if he shaves himself, then he is in fact shaving himself, and you said he does not shave people who shave themselves. So it'd be contradicting what you said. :)

what what what?
What to the fourth power. :P

If a barber will ONLY shave those people who do not shave themselves, but will NEVER shave those who do shave themselves, does the barber shave himself?
Of course not. He has his own barber.

What?
What what?

If you could change your name, what would you change it to?
I LOVE the name Ryder. I also like Melanie, Auriela, and Sydnie. I tend to go for the "odd", rare spellings/names. These are probably some combinations I'll use for a daughter.

Where's Waldo?
He's in the upstairs 600 wing. Duh.

If you were offered the job of U.S. president would you take the job?
No. I know almost nothing about politics, and I don't want to put millions of people through my indecision, lol.

Would you rather be a famous musician or a famous actor?
Musician/singer. I want to be both, but I've had the passion for singing longer than I've had it for acting. <3

Who do you think should be the next president of the United States?
I don't know, but Nick Jonas should definitely be president in 2040. :D

If you had to say one thing to one person you don't know all too well.. Who would it be, and what would you say?
Hmm... I would choose my friend's "best friend" and ask her why she thinks she's superior than everyone and why she's manipulated her so much.

What's your best advice for a boy who wants to make a girl love him like he loves her?
Again, I'm not even sure of the answer. How pathetic is that? Lol. Don't go overload with the impressing-I'm-so-cool-don't-you-like-me-now? crap. Be yourself, show her you care for her, and if you're close friends with her, start dropping hints about how you feel about her.

What's your best advice for a girl who wants to make a boy love her like she loves him?
Girl, if I knew the answer, I'd tell you. But unfortunately, I can't. I wish I knew, too.

What's your favorite movie quote?
:D :D So I pretty much love every line from "A Walk To Remember"- they are so witty when he tries acting all tough, lol. And then Sean's "monologue" at the end of April Showers. I also die every time I see Harry say/act out "Not to mention the pincers..." in the 6th Harry Potter movie. To see some of my other favorites, though, go to this link: CLICK! I probably need to do this again and update it. :D

Do you believe in the one big love?
I'd like to, believe me. I think everyone has a soul mate, but it doesn't mean they'll necessarily end up with that person. They will inevitably fall in love with them, but it may not be the best thing for each other. I don't believe in "one" love, but I do think there is someone out there for each person. Fate just has to make things work.

What instrument do you play & How long have you been playing?
I play the flute and I've played it since 4th grade, so about 8 years. I received a guitar for Christmas last year, but I've only picked out some notes/chords with it. Not enough to actually be good, lol.

do you believe in abstinence?
Yes. I mean, I don't think you should have to wait until the night of your wedding, but I don't believe in hooking up month after month while you're still a teenager, either.

if you could only listen to ONE song for the rest of your life..what would it be?
That's a tough question. :P I would say...either "Please Be Mine" by Jonas Brothers, "Free Fallin'" cover by John Mayer, or "Here Comes Trouble" by Honor Society. :D

What's a dream of yours that has stuck out the most?
Like, ambition or actual nighttime dream? I'll answer both. :) Ambition is obvious- to be a (successful!) singer. Nighttime dream... Well, I just had an awesome dream last night, but it's the first one I remember in a long time. I had this one really strange dream about three years ago, where I was in a drugstore and these three guys started shooting out the windows from the outside, so I was trying to duck and find a way out when I ran into some guy my age, who led me to this back entrance, and it opened up into this HUGE toy store. Random, I know.

If you could be an animal, what would it be?
Yay for random analogies! Ha, uh...I'd say a bird. They have this sense of freedom to them, and I'd love to be able to fly for endless hours.

If you could eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Mm. Either strawberry cheesecake, macaroni and cheese (Velveeta or Kraft, preferably), or ice cream cake. :D

Who inspires you most?
I think the person who inspires me most is my mom. She's always there for me, or at least makes that effort. She does things she doesn't necessarily want to do, and she has a strong sense of motivation that I have yet to find. And she has an impossibly big heart with more love to give than people seem to give her. <3

What would be the best thing about being a vampire?
Haha. Well, in the Cullens' case, possibly having a "special power," and not having to sleep. :)

I love your profile pic for formspring. Not a question, just thought I would tell you. <3
Well thank you. :)

What's the secret to happiness?
Funny you should ask me. :P I don't know, does anyone? It changes every day, but lately I've found that happiness comes by remembering past memories (good ones, at least) and cherishing the little things in life we often don't think too much about.

What was your worst class ever? Like not hardest, but just, most bad.
Huh...I don't know. I like most of my classes, because the people in the class make it awesome. If I had to pick one, I'd say Skills for Success. Intro to Tech I could bear, because the teacher was nice, but Skills was just so freaking boring. Then again, the people in my class... :)

If a tree falls on a woman, what the hell was a tree doing in the kitchen?
Oh, you're too funny. :P

If a man speaks alone in the middle of the woods, and no woman can hear him, is he still wrong?
Absolutely. Why is he alone in the woods, away from his woman?

Do you ever feel socially awkward when your just standing by yourself at an event? Like you do know how to stand or what to do with yourself?
Absolutely. That's why I try to have at least one person I know there with me. :)

what's your biggest pet peeve? like as in things that people do that annoy you.
Sigh. I have a very long list of pet peeves, haha. I should really write them down and organize them so I can actually answer this question. But one thing that really ticks me off, and I try so hard not to do to others, is when I'm lied to. Especially if it's someone I trust.

do you ever have an ongoing occurring nightmare? if so, what is it.
I actually don't remember any of my dreams. I used to, but for the past three-four years I haven't been able to. So no, I don't have a reoccuring nightmare.

Based on your answer to the last question asked it sounds like sophmore year was pretty craptastic for you.Just out of curiosity,care to explain why?You don't have to go into detail if you really don't want to-but it'd be interesting if you did.
My best friend's friendship with me was going south, very south. And I was trying to cling onto something that she was very obviously over, and I just kept pulling myself further and further down. By the time I realized just how deep a hole I had dug into, it was too late for me to just wake up the next morning and feel instantly better- I had to work the rest of the year to at least feel happy about something again. And some of my other friends had made me promises and told me things were going to happen, and I (naturally) got my hopes up before plans fell apart, so I felt like I was constantly being let down.

What's the origin of your name?
Well, I know it's Latin, and means "to be loved" (I believe that's the translation). :)

What is one memory you would love to forget? If you don't want to share, then do you have any that you want to forget?
Honestly? I'd love to forget about those few moments on the chorus trip, and the majority of sophomore year. Absolute worst year of my life. I completely lost myself and I know I wasn't any fun to be around.

Now I want YOU to explain your absolute dream life in detail. GO! (:
:D Aight. My dream is to go to a university for four years and major in English or French, minor in communications or music. Then while I'm in college I'll find a really nice guy who truly loves me (I'm not betting on the whole marry-a-celeb) and I'm crazy for; we'll move to Cali for me to try to start my singing career. I'll then be known as a double-threat, because my agent will want me to audition for movies and I'll be an actress too. And then when we get married we're traveling to Europe and Australia, and he'll be by my side through all the highs & lows. Plus, I'll become BFFs with the Jonas', Demi, and I'll record with John Mayer and OneRepublic. (It's sketchy in some areas, I know.)

Alright, so what I want to know is, what is your absolute favorite memory?
Oh dear... It's hard to pick an absolute favorite, but I have two that come to mind that both remind me of how happy I was. One is the majority of 7th grade- I had great classes/teachers, I didn't think twice about taking risks, and I had friends who (at the time) were there for me time and assured a good time. My second is the summer before high school. It's the last time I went to the beach with my family. My brother was real moody, because he didn't like family vacations, but the two days I liked best were the day we went to the actual beach (he didn't mind hanging out with me and walked along the water with me) and the day we went to the water park. A guy hit on me and my brother got the inside scoop on him; we gave him a nickname and everything. It's also the last time that I feel I was completely, 100% happy with who I was. There are lots more, but those were the times I felt happiest.

Purple is a good color, why do you choose it?
Well, it's the color of my room- I've had it this way since 7th grade. I love purple flowers. And I think purple clothing compliments me best.

What makes you really good today?
Well first of all, I'm understanding things in my classes. But when I got home I received an email from my teacher saying I got an A on my trig/pre-calc final. Hell yes. :D

What's your favorite color? lol
Purple!

How many countries have you traveled to?
The only place outside of the US I've been is the Bahamas. So 1.

I don't know you, but you're very cute :3 and since I should ask a question... how are you?
Well thanks. :) HA, I'm actually really good, thanks!

in response to the question i just asked, something like that happened to me freshman year. i totally understand.
Well, it's comforting to know I'm not the only one to go through it. :) Thanks for letting me know.

That person saying that they enjoy the site didn't actually ask a question. Is that fair?
Eh, I'll accept it. But thank you for asking a question. :)

"Out of all the people in the world, she is in my history class. She didn’t acknowledge me, at all." who is the person ur referring to???
Someone I no longer get along with, and I thought I was fine and better off without her. I lied to myself.

I am well, feeling my way through the beginnings of college. Thanks for asking. Whats new?
New semester of classes, yerp.

I really enjoy this site. Its easy to see what other people are thinking. And/ the thoughts are the same.
I agree. Plus I like seeing what people really want to know about me, what's on their mind.

How often do you get actually pissed off? Not just upset, but seriously angry.
When I'm at home and my dad starts freaking out for no reason. So that would be about once a week, maybe more. There are times when I really cannot stand him. Like today.

Agreed to what you said about that guys not giving us a chance. I sometimes wished they really saw who we were. Sometimes its hard for me to open up because im worried there going to be quick to judge, you know?
I don't blame you one bit. That's why people think I'm so shy- I guess I'm not really shy, I'm just not willing to open up; I don't want to be judged.

If your going to the white out, what are you goning to wear? Is it like nice white shirt and jeans? Or is jeans not good enough
Nah, jeans are cool. Heck, you could wear sweats- that's how relaxed it. I only have one white shirt (it's long-sleeved, kind of dressy but not really), and black skinny jeans. Yup.

what is the worst/hardest thing you've ever had to do, and why?
There's two things, actually, and I'm doing both of them right now- trying to move on from something that was such an important part of my life, and trying to decipher if what I feel is real, or just what I wish could be real. Why? Both have the same reason- both sides of the outcome will end up hurting me.

Who was thee last person you hurt, and explain why you hurt them? Would you fix it if you had the chance??
Technically, the last person I hurt was myself. But if you mean other than me... Probably my mom. Whenever she wants to talk, I'm usually in a bad mood already, so it's not her fault, although she thinks it is. And yes, I would fix it. I try every chance I find myself in a good mood.

Doesn't it bug you when guys say to "ew shes ugly" its like they didnt even give us a chance.
I agree. I also don't like when the first words of out their mouths are "Dayumm, she's hot as hell!" Like, ew? You're a pig.

Did you ever act like you didn't care when someone put you down...but really it continuously bothers you?
Absolutely. I'm kind of in that sitch right now.

Do you have any scars on your body? If so, how'd you get them?
Yerp. I have one on my knee from when I ran into a wooden post at a completely wooden playground. I have one on my right ear from when I was playing with one of those parachute-guy toys and I was spinning around too fast, fell down, and smashed my ear into the leg of our kitchen table (haha). & I'm sure I have plenty more that I don't notice or don't remember how they got there.

So new friend, how are you?
I'm in a better mood than I was earlier, thanks for asking. :) How 'bout yourself?

Want to be friends?
Sure!

What could you possibly like about the Jonas Brothers? (please don't say they're sexy)
HAHA. No worries. :) You know, when they first "premiered" on Disney Channel singing "Year 3000", I didn't like them. They just didn't have my appeal. Then their video for "Hold On" was the next one I saw, and when I heard what the lyrics were about, I liked what I heard, so I tried to find more about them. AKA looking them up on YouTube. At that time they were doing self-promotions by making crazy YouTube videos, and I realized that not only were they talented in a way, they were also very funny, and kind/nice. Now, years after that all started, they have matured and maybe they have changed in ways, but everything I liked about them from the beginning still holds true. Their songs really have helped me through some awful times in my life, and the things they do for others is something you don't see often. That's why I like them- not because of their looks or "sexiness".

mmm but don't you think if you could hear everyone's most inner thoughts that it would take a lot of the mystery out of life?
That's true. Maybe that's how I'll find my true love- someone will be a glitch to my system and I won't be able to hear their thoughts. ;)

Is there a common theme to all of those songs?
Hm. I think those songs have either pulled me through a hard time, or have helped me realize who I am as a person and that I can move on.

Can you name one guy who you'd consider dating?
Sure- Joseph Jonas. And Gerard Butler, if he was younger. ;)

Where do you want to live in Europe and why?
I'd want to live in a village in London and then have another home/cottage in a village in France. One reason I want to be there so badly is because I've had two opportunities to go there (TWO!), and I couldn't go either time. So I am very adamant about traveling there. I also am very fond of the French language and culture, and I think London (well, all of England) is so beautiful. Plus it reminds me of Harry Potter. :D

Mandy how do you know six people can fit in a cruise ship's shower? I've seen those showers... I've showered in those showers HOW DID YOU FIT SIX PEOPLE IN THAT?
HAHAHA. Well, it wasn't like we could all fit in there comfortably...

Whats the song you think sums up your life?
I kind of have a few; "Underdog" by Jonas Brothers has always been the one that sticks out the most, however. Others include "Tunnel" by Third Day, "Breathe" by Taylor Swift, "Where Are You Now" by Honor Society, "Right Here" by Miley Cyrus, "Hold On" by Jonas Brothers, and "A Mess It Grows" by He Is We.

How do you feel about the Pres.?
President Obama? Let me say that I don't follow politics at all. I like him as a person, but because I don't keep up with the news and all, I can't say whether I agree or disagree with his actions. But I do believe he has genuine ideals and beliefs.

How many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie pop?
I've never tried, but I think I saw someone on Facebook say it took them at least 1,000.

How many people can fit in your shower?
HAHA. I don't know, but I do know a shower in a room on a cruise ship can fit six people.

If you could have a super power, what would it be?
To hear people's thoughts. I'm obsessed with what goes on inside people's heads, so to hear their inner-most thoughts would be awesome.

What's one thing you own that you should probably throw away, but never will?
I this rocking chair from when I was really little that I was obsessed with, and a bunch of dolls. And this really old blanket and pillow set. No way am I getting rid of them.

What is love?
I believe everyone has their own definition. To me, love is when you can't imagine yourself being without that person, but if it came down to it, you'd hurt yourself in order to make them happy. Plus a whole bunch of little matters in between.

Better than formspring, try http://tr.im/KJ4z
Lol, no thanks. Although that home page was very cute. :)

How many boyfriend-based questions do you expect that you're going to receive via formspring.me?
Good question! Ha, I've received at least five so far, so who knows how many more.

Do you want a boyfriend?
Yes and no. It depends who it is, although that sounds terribly horrible, I know. It's just...I'm busy, but not too busy; I'm unstable, but stable enough. Very conflicting. I don't need one, but sometimes need that person who will be there for me.

I wrote this poem...but can't think of the title. Any thoughts? But you say there is nothing more The sadness inside that you create Everything is done once you close the door You rip my heart out and throw it on the floor Not a thing you do can bring
I'm sorry, it got cut off. :/ If you send it to me in a comment or message I'll help you think of a title!

Do you have a boyfriend?
No, I don't.

Okay thanks for your thoughts...but now what should I do?
You're welcome. :) I'd say play it cool for a little- act normally, like you used to. If you start noticing different things about her, things that are good, maybe drop hints to her that you like her.

Describe your perfect man
Hasn't anyone told you? There's no such thing as 'perfect'! :) Like I said before, he needs to be taller than me, has to make me laugh but know when to be serious, I have to be comfortable around him and be able to trust him. Everything else will fall into place, and I'll be able to work around that stuff. I hope. :)

what's the wierdest food you've ever eaten haha
I used to be in love with dipping potato chips into mustard, and people thought I was crazy. If something is "weird" to me, I won't eat it. I don't like Chinese food, though, so maybe that would be my weidest food?

whats your favorite ice cream flavor at COLDSTONE? :D i'm obsessed with cake batter! it's deeeeeeeelicious.
Every time I go to Coldstone I get the same thing- the banana/orange/strawberry smoothie (I don't remember the actual name- it's been too long!). I haven't ever gotten just regular ice cream. :D

if your house was burning down, list 5 things (not family/pets) that you would save.
My diary, my box of letters that I've received in the mail, my stuffed Pooh Bear, my iPod, and my journal of favorite quotes.

So I'm a dude and last night a had a dirty dream about one of my best friends that's a girl. She's like a sister to me, but now I'm confused...any thoughts?
First- thanks for saying "dirty dream" rather than explaining. ;) Um, the first thing that I thought of was that you really do like her, deep inside. Maybe you aren't fully aware of it yet, and your dream was trying to wake you up to "reality." Don't take my word for this, it's just my opinion. But I totally get the whole falling-for-your-best-friend deal.

Are you going to answer this question?
Sure. :)

What is your favorite OneRepublic song?! :]
"All Fall Down". I actually decided this earlier today, lol. And my second favorite is "Say (All I Need)".

what do u want 2 major in 4 college?
I have no idea. How bad does that sound? Lol. I'm thinking either English, journalism, something about music, or an area of communications.

If you could put a message into a fortune cookie, what would it say?
I'd use part of one of my favorite quotes- "Maybe instead of focusing on the destination, we ought to look at the journey."

what color name polish are you wearing right now?
I'm actually not wearing any nail polish. I am thinking of painting them either black or dark purple, though.

Do you believe in life after love?
...What does that mean? Lol.

Is there life outside of earth?
As in life on other planets? Possibly. I personally don't think so- I have trouble imagining and believing in asbtract ideas, ha.

i think you and bobby would make a cute couple :) hahha
Aw, thanks. :)

What's the best place near you to get some ice cream?
COLDSTONE! Well, that's in Lancaster. Uhm. I basically love all ice cream, but I'm a sucker for Debby's Pizza's frozen yogurt flavor swirl. Mmmm.

i love love love loveeeeee lock and key! :D best book i've read this year. recommend any others like that?
:D I definitely recommend Sarah Dessen's other books. She's a very talented writer. Some other good authors are Jodi Picoult and Nicholas Sparks (you should know about him by now). :)

How do you think you did on the trig final?
Not as bad as I was expecting, but I'm not very confident, either. So I'd say that averages to maybe a C; if I'm lucky, a B.

Guess who?
Peppermint Patty! ...I honestly don't know. Lol.

So you'd love them no matter what? Would you understand why they kept it a secret?
I'm pretty sure I would. I'm a pretty accepting person, in my opinion. And yes, I'd understand.

What would you do if you found out one of your closer friends was gay?
I'd still be their friend, and I'd support them. It doesn't matter to me whether you're straight or gay, you're still important.

are you gay or just overly "happy"?
I'd say neither, actually.

Have you ever slapped anyone?
I slapped my brother once. He freaked out until I told him one of his friends told me to do it for her. :)

Whats your favorite Abba song?
I'll be honest- I don't listen to Abba. I have heard of them, though.

Why are you friends with this strange girl named Caroline?
Hmm, let's see. She's helped me through some pretty tough dilemmas that shouldn't have been hers to worry about. She can make me see the real side of things when I want to be stubborn and whine. Oh, and she has a way of making me smile just by leaving a voicemail or sending a letter in the mail. She's pretty cool. :)

Is there anything wrong with being curious????
Nope, not at all. I'm curious quite often myself. :)

If you could only meet one person (living) out of all the people you would like to meet, who would it be?
I would say...Caroline. Because she really does feel like a sister to me, separated at birth. And she's helped me in so many ways, that I just want the chance to give my thanks to her. Even if it is taking her to a club in the Amish land. ;)

So if you don't have a boyfriend is there anyone you have your eye on?
Mm, not specifically. My, you're very curious.

What's your greatest fear?
Death. I'm not even kidding. Because I don't have a strong belief and faith, if I think about it for too long, I have a major panic attack. I also fear darkness, like being in a dark room, spiders, and not feeling worthy or important enough.

You know the drink machine outside the cafeteria? Meet me there tomorrow after school so you can see who likesssss you! :P
No thanks. I know better than that- someone will jump outta the corner and spray me with silly string! ;)

Do you have a boyfriend? cause you sure are hottt!!!
Nope.

do you still get spanked??
Hahaha, no. And I've only been grounded once, when I was about seven. I went to a different friend's house than the friend I told my parents I was going to; only because the first friend wasn't home. I bawled, but my dad bought me Wendy's, so I considered it a fair trade. ;)

If you had to be a certain color purple, what shade of purple would you be?
Mm. Violet (because I like the name) or lavender.

What are the answers to the trig final?
Do I look like God?! Oh, how I wish I knew... Let's fail together, yay? Yay!

Honestly who asked the Jonas Brothers question? That's kind of ridiculous.. I mean they're PEOPLE who you have no real connection with. People say they LOVE them but what they really love is their talent or looks or both. It's not like they know them.
I agree with you, sistah. :)

Anyways..what i wanted to ask wasssss... what's your resolutions for 2010? :) short-term or long-term.
Long-term goals are to start looking for the positive sides of things, to not hold back from being myself, to come to a decision about a major/career, and to help at least one person through a rough time. And then short-time are to go to more than one concert and to get a job for the summer, so I can earn some moolah.

How would you get off a desert island, if all you had were sea turtles?
I'd take the hairs from my back (or wherever else I'd get them) and use them to tie the sea turtles together, and then ride home. ;)

What is your favorite Jonas Brothers song?
I hate you. :P Ha, uhm... When You Look Me In The Eyes, Inseparable, Eternity (if they'd ever record it!), Please Be Mine, and Turn Right. Maybe? I think.

How much creeping is two much creeping?
There is no such thing as "too much creeping." :) Just kidding. I think once you've reached the point where you know personal things that weren't meant to be public, you've crossed the line.

what do u want to do when you grow up?
Sing and act. That has been my dream since I was...oh, four or five? I actually had weekly Britney Spears karaoke concerts in my living room for my mom and stuffed animals. But on a more serious, more "this-is-more-likely-to-happen" note, I think I'd enjoy being an editor for a publishing company or magazine, or a music journalist, or some other communications post. I'm still not sure.

Why don't you wear more makeup?
Because I don't need to. Thanks. :)

It seems like you think that some of your friends who you aren't necessarily "close to" don't understand you. (Just an observation, correct me if I'm wrong) Why do you think that is? Or is it that you think they don't care?
Eh, sort of. I don't think anyone "gets" me, or completely understands me. But it is true that those I'm closer to are usually more likely to feel my pain. Why? Because they've shown me that they will take an extra minute out of their day to check up on me, to ask how my life is going rather than brag about theirs, etc. I believe that all my friends genuinely care, it's just that some care more than others.

You have two choices- Meet the Jonas Brothers and kill your dog, or don't meet the Jonas Brothers and keep your dog. What do you choose?
The latter. Let's face it- the chances of meeting the Jonas Brothers are about one in a billion. I may look up to them and really care about them, but I love my dog so much more. :)

If you could have the starring role in one movie what would it be?
A successful musical (hehe), or a romantic comedy or action movie. Chyeah.

Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
...Both. More introvert, though. Most people know me as shy. I do talk, however, when I've known you for more than a week, and if I'm really hyper or happy.

why would someone ask why you act bipolar? you're a teen. we're unstable. we get upset. jeeeez.
Well, I can't blame that person, because I've said myself I act bipolar. :) But it is true, many teenagers are unstable. It's natural. Thanks, though!

Why do you act bipolar sometimes?
Good question. I don't even know. The tiniest things set me off and make me sad and upset; but then again, the tiniest things make me happy and hyper. All I know is that I wish I wasn't so unstable.

Are you going to a NJ & TA concert? :)
No, not anymore, and not that I'm aware of. S'all good, though.

7?
717? :)

What do you do when you stopped doing something you love because it lost the "fun" in it, where do you go next? How do you know what to do..
I'm not sure... I don't think that has ever really happened to me. I guess you just find something else that makes you happy and do that? If you want to explain the situation, just talk to me whenever. :)

Since you can't text, do you hate when you hang out with your friends and they text people? Or does it not bother you at all?
Oh, it definitely bothers me. I understand the occasional text. But if you made the time to hang out with me, or agreed to, then don't spend that entire three hours talking with someone else. It makes it very awkward. & It's not just because I can't text; if I could, I wouldn't change my answer to this at all.

Who is your best friend?
I have three: Gabby, Caroline, and my mom. :)

How much wood would a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood?
OMG. Is it really "could"? I used to always say "couldn't"...which doesn't even make sense... Ha. So, Mr. Woodchuck, to answer your question: Anything is possible when you have faith. :)

Do you ever feel like there is no one you can talk to, even though you know otherwise deep inside? Glad you know you're beautiful now. ;)
YES. I tend to choose not to tell people my problems. Why stress them out with my problems and stubbornness, when they probably have their own struggles? It's bad for me, to hold it all inside, but I don't want to hurt others with my tantrums.

Have you ever felt like you wanted to do what your friends were doing but can't find yourself doing what you really want to?!
Somewhat. Peer pressure-wise, no. I'm level-headed and I have my idea of right/wrong, so I can find my own way with that. As in joining a group or going somewhere with friends that I'm not really up for, I'll usually go anyway, to make them happy.

What do you look for in a guy? And did you know your beautiful?
Honestly, I don't have set "prerequisites." He must be taller than me, and have a sense of humor but also know when to be serious. I also have to be able to trust him and feel comfortable with him. Anything else I can work with, I suppose.
And that was sweet of you. I know that now. ;)

What is your idea of a "cute" gift?
I would really, really love for a boy to give me a key necklace or bracelet with a note attached that says I have the key to his heart. :)

"Do not look for happiness.. Focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others, your work and doing the very best you can, and happiness will find you :)" This is a quote from the top of Sarah's page. I believe it! It seems when we focus on what we want and what we need, that never really brings the happiness we expect.
:) Thank you, I think I needed to hear that.

Hey, guess who?!
...God? Ha, I don't know. Peek-a-boo! :)

Do you know why you can't be happy?
Good question. Earlier in the day I said I feel like I'm not living the life I want to live, so maybe it's that I'm not able to do the things I want to do. It almost seems like when I do something, my parents expect a real reason for doing it; "I want to" isn't good enough or something. & Then, of course, I believe that whenever I feel happy, someone out in the world hates to see me happy, so they throw something at me that I can handle, but is a huge struggle for me. These are all just guesses, though. I'd love if anyone else had suggestions.

what make up do you use?
Ha, really? Mascara I use Maybelline, eye liner I use Avon, and eye shadow I use CoverGirl, Avon, and Rimmel. That's pretty much it.

You're probably gonna be like 'omg really?!! a Twilight question?!'. Ha, but if you could only choose ONE: Jacob or Edward?
:] When I first read Twilight back in 2006 (yes, I did read it way before all the hype), I was all for Edward- he was your dream guy, what else could you ask for, right? But after re-reading the books, I'm with Jacob. Edward is too controlling and overprotective for me. Jacob's just right- sarcastic, a rebel, but a sweetheart. :P

I love you, would you marry me?
For you, of course I would. In a heartbeat. :]

If you could have an celebrity play you in a movie, who would it be?
Two choices. My first would be Selena Gomez, because she's very witty and sarcastic, but she can be very sweet, too. My second choice would be Emma Watson. I've always wanted a British accent, and her role in the Harry Potter movies has always impressed me.

Name your favorite song/songs for when you are happy and song/songs for when you are sad or depressed.
Happy songs: Party In The USA by Miley Cyrus, Ain't Nothing Wrong With That by Robert Randolph, Average by Breathe Electric, Love Addict by Family Force 5, One Man Show by Jonas Brothers, Naturally & More, both by Selena Gomez, Got Dynamite by Demi Lovato... Basically upbeat, fast-tempo songs. Sad songs: No One's Gonna Love You by Band of Horses, I Only See You by Benton Paul, Catch Me by Demi Lovato, Sweet Dreams For You by Jewel, Can't Have You by Jonas Brothers, She Is Love by Parachute, The Way I Loved You by Selena Gomez, anything by Secondhand Serenade... Anything that calms me or has a beautiful melody. I tend to listen to a lot more country when I'm not very happy, lol.

heyyyyyy =] sooooo.... my question. okay. drum rolllllll. what. is. your...................... favorite song? lol idk. lets fly to london mands =] lol i bet you know who this is now. ahhaha. loveeee youuuu best friend!
Hm, I wonder who this could possibly be... ;] You know, if you bought me a plane ticket, I'd be so ready to go to London. But, to answer your question... I've been making a list (I can't possibly have ONE favorite song). Some of my favorite songs are: "In My Daughter's Eyes" by Martina McBride, "Daughters" by John Mayer, "Falling Slowly" by Kris Allen, and "Stay" by Sugarland.

have you ever had a boyfriend before?
Yes and no. Yes, because I did date a guy at the end of eighth grade, and we were really close friends before and during. No, because it lasted a wimpy three weeks. :P I haven't had one since for various reasons, if that happened to be your next question.

well i wanted to say that i think you are really pretty. i remember one time on your profile you said something like "i know im not one of those pretty girls but my personality is beautiful" ..but girl, trust me! you ARE beautiful. because you don't wear a lot of make-up you're not pretty? UH NO. in fact, i think most girls would be jealous of your NATURAL prettiness. i'm not saying this because i'm one of your friends.. in fact, i don't think we've even talked before. but i just wanted you to know that you're not ugly? so please don't degrade yourself. (p.s. you don't have to actually post this in your formspring..i just don't really ever talk to you, so i thought it'd be easier to tell you that anonymously)
:] Thank you so, so much. This honestly put a smile onto my face. That was so unbelievably kind. And as long as you don't have some hatred towards me, don't be afraid to have a little conversation with me sometime. :]

What do you psychically want for Christmas?
Physically? :] Well, my top three items were all expensive things I knew I wouldn't get (a BlackBerry for my 2-year upgrade, a laptop, and an iPod classic), but my list was mainly compiled of books. Yes, I'm a nerd and love reading. I'm desperately in need of new ones. And then a few CDs- I'd rather have a real, hard copy of the music than something downloaded.
Oh, and a really kind, sweet, genuine, and "mysterious" boy would be nice, too. One who doesn't go to my school. ;]

do you know bobby in real life? and how'd you two meeet or i guess...find? each other lol
No, I don't know Bobby in real life, but he is one of the closest friends I have. I joined the site in July of 2007 for the Clique contest, and he happened to join that summer, too- the day before his birthday, to be exact. :] I saw his profile and decided to be friendly and strike up a conversation with him. I'm so happy I did.

whats your favorite disney love story? :) and your favorite disney song?
Love story? Oo. There's a backstory to this: my friends and I went on a chorus trip and we went to the Bahamas and Disney World. There were six of us, so we became the six princesses- I was Cinderella. My instinct is to say my favorite love story is her's, but I really think either Aladdin or Beauty & The Beast.
Favorite song? Hm... "Someday My Prince Will Come" from Snow White, and "A Whole New World" from Aladdin.